Happy Valentine." 2018" Top 12 simple things you can do for your loved one this valentines.



These could benefit the newly weds , new couples in a relationship, lovers, engaged couples and the ones already in marriages. Am sure you want this valentines to standout but what could make this day memorable?

It doesn't have to entail spending to much money but the simple gestures will make it THE DAY. Choose this day to do the imaginable things to your partner that would make her or him smile. Shhhh let it be a surprise. Who doesn't like surprises.

Ideas flocked into my mind when I saw my colleague searching on Google ways to spend your valentines. And I was like, we all go or what to be done for expensive acts, bought material things to impress one another or to be impressed.

What if you can not equal what your spouse has brought. Let us try and appreciate our loved ones with the simple gestures that would not cost much of our time and money.As for me here are;

Top 12 simple things you can do for your loved one this valentines.

1.Given them a hug.


Hugs are the roots of all connections in a relationship, how many times do hug your spouse in a day. Dedicate this day to be the day of hugs to your lovely spouse and watch him or her light up mood. Especially the surprise hugs are the best.Getting feel-good hug before heading to work or if you are in a stressful situation helps you keep your calm, cool and collected in any situation. Before i never use to be a huger, but my husband made me embrace it and i get to seek his hugs whenever i feel like and to him its okay and he loves it.

2.Give her or her a passion kiss.


3.Slowly whisper sweet words in his or her ear.
 

These words and phrases that when whispered or said slowly with affection can change ones angry look or mood.“Calm down honey,” or “What’s wrong Beb?” or " I love you"  Or " A sorry."  and also "Happy Valentines."These phrases and words are very powerful. In every relationship communication is key and everything.

4.Remind each other of the old good times.
Good memories and joyful times especially through difficult times makes you remember how far you have come. Happy times are meant to be capture and remembered. vacation and big life event will definitely do a big trick. Have videos and pictures made for occasions that important, looking at them thinking why did you stop doing this and that together. Come back to the old good habits and start making your marriage or relationship feel like new. 

5.Propose.
This will make you never forget your anniversaries. Let this be the big day for you and your wife to. Have friends and families involved, possibly celebrating with and assuring you, you have made a good decision.Be dramatic and creative and pool up a good surprise. And do not forget the most important thing "The Ring."Package the ring to make it attractive.



6.Renew vows.
Want to relive that moment by renewing their wedding vows Then make this valentines memorable by having a secret plan to renewing your vows with your spouse. No need of paper work because you are already married, it will definitely be easy to arrange and cheap to organize. This event will symbolize a lot in your marriage and also an excuse of a honey moon.

7.Go shopping together.
Shopping with your spouse could fun at some point. You get to learn, plan and understand more about one another. That could be a good idea this valentines, don't you think. Personally i do most the shopping with my spouse. We get to try thing for the first time together, laugh and best of all i always feel the sense of protection.



8.Cuddle.
Do you like cuddle?Cuddling!! Mmmm brings closeness. Your don't know how to express your love to your partner, just cuddle. Sometimes words means nothing with out some action. It's deep intimacy.



9.Dance to your favorite songs.
I have always thought is a salsa dance. Mmmm, or just dancing to my favorite music. I am not a good dancer neither is my husband. but what you went for a salsa dance together with you part that is you know the moves or spend a quiet night in a quiet place with slow romantic songs. Am sure this will be magical.



10.Surprise her at her office.
Even if you have forgotten to give a hug or kiss in the morning before you left for work, there is still time. Have a package delivered at his or her office, or invite yourself there and give him a surprise. I don't know how most men feel about surprises but many ladies are into it. 



11.Invite him or her for a date lunch or dinner.

Forget about the kids, your friends and take your spouse to a romantic lunch or dinner date for a change. Sharing your favorite meals at your favorite restaurant or where you first date as a couple rekindles that love. Make it memorable.

12.Watch a romantic movie together.
 I am a movie lover, i could watch a whole day, but my husband is a complete opposite of me. He is into music and football. But love is all about accommodation and having time for each other hence the do together list schedule comes in handy for us, where we could both could listen to music and also watch a movie together or give each other space. come to think of it why cant i watch football with him? Mmmm i think i should. Ha ha ha! i can already picture the look in his face.



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